Physical Discipline
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Physical Discipline at Southern ComfortHere at Southern Comfort, we recognize three different types of physical discipline: Traditional Physical discipline, which includes both mouth soaping and flagellation (spanking in its various forms); Non-Traditional Physical Discipline, which includes most forms of exercise and some types of chores; and Alternative Physical Discipline, which includes enemas and figging.
Please note that everything on the lists that we have provided is acceptable on our site. There may be some things here which you find distasteful and I'm not going to apologize for that. For some people, everything about age play is distasteful. While we recognize that the majority are probably looking for non-sexual age play (and in that regard prefer a role play without enemas or anal figging as punishment), we didn't make this group for the majority of people: we made it to suit the way that we play and we prefer to be as honest as possible with potential members before opening up our doors to people who may find our group disturbing. Between the administrators of Southern Comfort, the majority of discipline is physical. This is what we, personally, enjoy. It's something that we will continue to employ regardless of the size of the group. If it's just the two of us, there will be a lot of spanking going on. If it's ten or eleven of us, there will be a lot of spanking going on. This is our preference and we really enjoy it. We also both "switch," playing both the adult and the child or teen role. Each of us both gives and receives spankings and other physical punishments from the other (more on this below). It is our expectation that the vast majority of the discipline taking place on Southern Comfort will continue to be physical in nature. Physical discipline, by our definition, comes in three forms. Traditional physical discipline, non-traditional physical discipline, and alternative physical discipline. Public DisciplineAt Southern Comfort, we work with an alternate universe in which physical punishment is not only common, but the recommended. Grandparents recommend spanking and other physical punishments to their children to help grandchildren behave, and teachers send notes home to parents suggesting that a good spanking might straighten out Little Johnny's behavior. In some cases, the spanking may be administered by the teacher right there in the middle of the classroom.
In light of this, public spanking is allowed at Southern Comfort, and children (and, yes! teenagers) may receive spankings, paddlings, canings, etc right in the middle of the park, the store, or a restaurant. This is something that we want our members to be aware of, because while we will encourage anyone who plays an adult to please negotiate these threads with the players of their children, ultimately the parent gets the final say in when, where and how a punishment is going to be administered. We do ask that everyone bear in mind that verbal public chastisement is acceptable only at the yellow level and above, that public spanking, paddling or caning is only acceptable at the red level or above and that any other form of public physical punishment is only acceptable at the purple level. A Note About Adult DisciplineA lot of adult discipline happens on Southern Comfort, and it typically takes three forms: Domestic Discipline, Age Play, and BDSM (Master/slave). While those engaging in Domestic Discipline partnerships or in an Age Play relationship will probably primarily use the punishments that you will find listed on this site, that is not typical for the Master/slave pairs, who may use these forms of discipline in conjunction with just about anything else, from clamps to hot sauce and vaginal figging. Please be aware that we cannot possibly list everything to everyone's tastes for these relationships and that the people who want to play them should negotiate with one another prior to engagement.
Negotiating ThreadsThe staff of Southern Comfort would like to strongly emphasize the importance of negotiating your threads with your role play partner. Unless you have been role playing with someone for an extended period of time, you do not want to make mistakes with their character. This applies to both those who play adults and those who play children. Bear in mind that even adults have their limits and may not want to play the same scenarios that you want to play.
Unless you have established trust with another player and they have established trust with you, use the PM system to get to know your role play partner before posting a discipline thread! Discipline and the BodyCertain areas of the body are considered "appropriate" for discipline in children, adding more for teenagers and adults. None of these are particularly realistic, but that's not a problem, since this is a role playing game, and not a site designed to offer honest advice for parents!
We ask that parents, guardians, teachers and support staff restrict the punishment of children to the buttocks and the thighs except in extreme circumstances, when the hands may be punished with thin, whippy implements (such as canes or rulers). The hands should be used sparingly. For teenagers, the hands, feet and shoulders all become appropriate targets in addition to the buttocks and thighs. In adults, all parts of the body become open, within reason. Try to take note of the areas that should be avoided in real life and avoid those areas or at least deal with them appropriately in terms of possible injury. Always negotiate your threads when punishing anything other than the buttocks or the thighs, just to make sure!
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